Brice ran from his abusive wife with their son
Brice* is a 43-year-old single father who had escaped a family violence situation with his mother when he was young. Brice had a history of alcohol and drug use, engagement with the criminal justice system and had struggled with aggression.
After his first marriage ended he lost contact with his young son. He married again and had a son with his second wife, who was heavily dependent on drugs. He lived with his wife and son in social housing and often had to ask his mother for financial support.
Often when he came home from work, Brice found his son alone and with bruising that his wife couldn’t explain. To prevent his wife from taking their son with her when she went to buy drugs at night, Brice began sleeping in the same room as his son.
I felt like I had to protect our son from his own mum. It wasn’t supposed to be this way.Brice
Brice desperately wanted to help his wife address her addiction, but couldn’t seem to make a difference. Feeling he had done all he could to keep their family safely together, Brice took his son and moved in with his mother. He was later granted full custody of their son.
Did you know that approximately 4.4% of men (397,300) have experienced violence by a previous partner?1
Even after leaving the situation with his ex-wife, she and her friends continued to threaten and harass him. Brice obtained a police order against his ex-wife, but that did not end the harassment. At this point, Brice felt he had few options left and decided to move interstate. Although he was now a great distance away, he still struggled and found it hard to find safe and secure accommodation for himself and his son.
After getting in touch with Mission Australia, Brice was able to secure transitional housing and gained access to mental health support and a range of other services including financial support. Brice was recently approved for a social housing property. Finally, after all they have been through, Brice and his son feel settled, safe and optimistic about the future.
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*Names changed to protect the people we help
1Australian Bureau of Statistics (2017), Personal safety, Australia, 2016
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